Married Gay Guy

It’s easier to meet people on dating apps than it is in real life. You can easily throw out the “by the way I’m Bisexual” line upfront without having to waste time taking any crap. If they don’t like it they can say now and deal with it before we go any further. No time wasting no deceit.

But now and then I go on Gay dating apps and get messages from Married men. I’ve had one recently who seems nice. However he has said that he’s Married And has been since he was 18. Although he claims to be gay and has known he was gay since he was little. He said that his family are very homophobic and the girl chased him since school days and he just went along with what he was supposed to do and stupidly got married. It only works now because his wife is the sort who has no interest in sex and so they just live happily as good friends. He just doesn’t love her in the way that she thinks he does. (They have two kids though). To him she’s like a sister that he loves very much.

I’m fine with being discreet, I’m ok with not shouting it from the rooftop. But I’m not ok with lying behind a partners back. I just don’t want to be the other person. It’s not even a gay/hetero/bisexual thing. It’s just a respect thing. I wouldn’t want someone to do it to me. So why do it someone else. I’m not being judgmental. It’s his life not mine. But I just don’t want to be a part of all that. Even for a sleazy afternoon with a guy who looked stunning.

No, this is not him. But he was very similar 😉

Author: mickcase

I live in the UK and am Bisexual. Not that I would normally introduce myself this way. But it is the theme of this blog.

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